Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Loving... with the Difference


Between the many differences men and women have, is there a way that we could be more connected to each other than we think?  Why is it Men seem to not be sensitive to Women.  Why can’t Women be more understanding to Men? Is there some parallel boundary that brings the two together, or is it more of an endless search for compromise?  And why must we compromise?  Shouldn’t we be ourselves and never change for anyone
besides your self?  
 
That’s even questionable.  Why are there too many parallels between Men and Women?  Throughout our history you would have thought that by now Men and Women could see eye to eye.  Men should know Women need a little more attention, and Women should know Men need their ultimate space at times.  If knowing this could make LOVE easier, wouldn’t we just tell ourselves this to begin with? Can’t this be taught in some kind of high school class?  It could be called “How to be happy in love and life with Men and Women.”  This makes sense.  A class that explains how to handle the problems Men and Women have even before we come to deal with them. 
 
 
Throughout life, love comes and goes but I believe that you can have many loves, but there is only one great love, and when you find it, you will know. Sure love is always questionable but finding that one great love is the best sense of comfort ever.  I was once told that you should marry your Best Friend, the person in whom you can talk to, say anthing to, listen to  and do anything with.  The one person, who no matter how hard things get, will always be the one there for you regardless.  There however, are many imposters that you may be faced to deal with.  Do not try to avoid them, they are sent to you for certain reasons unbeknownst to us.  Someone has the best interest in you and you should just believe in it. No matter how idiotic the situation may be, trust in trust.  Everything happens for a reason, life is full of lessons that come full circle, for every action there is a reaction. 
This post is mostly for all of you that have found those Loved ones, maybe even those who have lost those Loved ones, and for the ones who Haven't found what your Looking for.  I can't speak too much about my Loves, they have all seemed to disapear from my existance with plenty of help on my behalf.  Who knows maybe I'll find love again, but I doubt i will ever Find that One True Love again, that ship came and sailed already.  However I'm a believer in Love and Can't wait to be in it Again. 
 
 
 
 
 


 

1 comment:

  1. I like wat you said very deep thinker...too much time on ur hands.....:)

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